Cycle

There is a weird cycle which we seem to go through when dating…I don’t know if its normal but its ridiculous

Basically it starts off on an even level.

Male -  Then tries to impress and puts in immense levels of effort and contact.

Female - Freaks out because this dude is coming on wayyyyy too stong (deal breaker for most commitment phobes)

Male - If he has made it past this point he will be in complete comfort (i have her in the palm of my hand) zone and will back off completely.

Female - Thinks why the hell is he putting in no effort at all, is he not interested anymore? hes not contacting as much?

Male - Stays in chilling mode - thinks he has it all figured

Female - Panics which results in overthinking which = most likely shutting that dude out of her mind

Male/Female = ON TO THE NEXT

And so the cycle starts again.

Moral of this post....if men were just consistent and chilled out from the beginning none of this would happen ;)


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