When you start 'dating' someone it is sometimes hard to read if they are into you or if they consider you to be more of a friend.
This has been happening to a few friends of mine recently and its always a very very thin line deciding if the new dude is into them or not.
One girlfriend has been dating this guy for about a month, he works interstate a fair bit and has to be quite respectable when in public hence his lack of drinking, therefore lack of flirtiness and also lack of smooching.
After 3 dates he still hadn't leant in for the goodnight kiss on the lips...this made my friend question if she had in fact read it all wrong and he was only keen on her company as a friend..well he finally grew some balls and sealed the deal.
My other friend had hooked up with a guy a few times and been on a couple of dates but was questioning his lack of keeness during the week. She would never hear a peep from him until Friday night...to me this SCREAMS booty call which I am sure she isn't complaining about too much.
I think i am guilty of occasionally being an OTT texter, i think its because i seem to have a very weak filter and do things when i feel like it without thinking...a few friends of mine are the type to literally construct a text ie. sit there for an hour and write and re-write the message until they think perfect...then to get no response from the other end possibly because majority of men/boys are just SMS spaz.
Basically this is saying lack of contact (all kinds of contact including bodily) can make you start to question things especially when they are new...so don't stress, enjoy what you have when you have it and chill the eff out.
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This has been happening to a few friends of mine recently and its always a very very thin line deciding if the new dude is into them or not.
One girlfriend has been dating this guy for about a month, he works interstate a fair bit and has to be quite respectable when in public hence his lack of drinking, therefore lack of flirtiness and also lack of smooching.
After 3 dates he still hadn't leant in for the goodnight kiss on the lips...this made my friend question if she had in fact read it all wrong and he was only keen on her company as a friend..well he finally grew some balls and sealed the deal.
My other friend had hooked up with a guy a few times and been on a couple of dates but was questioning his lack of keeness during the week. She would never hear a peep from him until Friday night...to me this SCREAMS booty call which I am sure she isn't complaining about too much.
I think i am guilty of occasionally being an OTT texter, i think its because i seem to have a very weak filter and do things when i feel like it without thinking...a few friends of mine are the type to literally construct a text ie. sit there for an hour and write and re-write the message until they think perfect...then to get no response from the other end possibly because majority of men/boys are just SMS spaz.
Basically this is saying lack of contact (all kinds of contact including bodily) can make you start to question things especially when they are new...so don't stress, enjoy what you have when you have it and chill the eff out.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx L
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