So you have made the poor guy wait at least 3 weeks (which i think is bloody good) he has been courting you and taking you on amazing dates, you have met all the friends and then the tension is too much and you cave into the bwana.

You need to time this perfectly....if you don't like the dude just go for it on the first date becase you don't care what he thinks of you anyway...however, if you like him you need to time it so its not so early you are considered 'easy' but not so late he thinks you are not interested.

Also how do you know if they are going to continue that stellar effort after  you cave...i guess time will tell and of course it is bound to slip slightly.
I think a few generic texts back and forth is a sign they are still slightly keen and then a dozen red roses shows up to work...i mean i would head for the hills. These poor guys just can't win..too nice..not nice enough.

Remember it  isn't just the dudes that are chasing Bwana its the ladies as well and if one of these slapper creatures has been with your beau before you they will have no doubt bene in the 'give it up on first date' category which then puts your boy in the mind frame that all ladies should do this.

IT IS NOT CLASSY....keep it in your pants a minumum 5 dates!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx L



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