There is a weird cycle which we seem to go through when dating…I don’t know if its normal but its ridiculous

Basically it starts off on an even level.

Male -  Then tries to impress and puts in immense levels of effort and contact.

Female - Freaks out because this dude is coming on wayyyyy too stong (deal breaker for most commitment phobes)

Male - If he has made it past this point he will be in complete comfort (i have her in the palm of my hand) zone and will back off completely.

Female - Thinks why the hell is he putting in no effort at all, is he not interested anymore? hes not contacting as much?

Male - Stays in chilling mode - thinks he has it all figured

Female - Panics which results in overthinking which = most likely shutting that dude out of her mind

Male/Female = ON TO THE NEXT

And so the cycle starts again.

Moral of this post....if men were just consistent and chilled out from the beginning none of this would happen ;)


xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx L

Until DJ Work in Progress (DJ WIP) hit the decks woooooooop wooooop.


Not going to lie we have only done roughly 3 sessions prior to debut, however the fact we have decided we are complete naturals makes us feel better about it!

Having a welcome to summer party on Saturday and am totally excited to spend the day with all my close friends!!

BRING IT ON PEOPLE.

P.S.  DJ WIP merchandise will be available on the day ......JOKING!!!!

Dear Sydney, you are seriously banging today, however I am not liking the fact you turn shite on the weekends.

This week is all about work, however the weekend is looking to be mellow and I seriously cannot wait to just do nothing.

I am sending huge love to my dude Timmy in NY and to everyone else there.

Happy hump day/Halloween!

Xxxxx L

It's 4am in Sydney and I can't sleep and it's doing my head in.

I don't know whether it's the devil mosquito that keeps nipping me or the drunk idiots outside my room.

Regardless TGIF!!!!

Has given me some much needed catch up time on the latest Victorias Secret show... Gym motivation at 4am anyone?!

This weekend is going to be amazing, it's a friends wedding and I can't wait.

Hope you have a fab one!

Xxxxxxx L

Ps more blog posts to come over the weekend.

Sydney has seriously turned it up this morning! The weather is actually ridiculously amazing!

I was meant to sleep in but woke up at 6am as per usual (first world problems)

This weekend is already proving to be fabulous and it's only Saturday morning. Last night I had the pleasure of meeting one of my friends brand new baby girl, who I might add is divine!

Today lots of exercise followed by some sunning, then heading over to manly for a night out with the chicks - changing it up a bit.

Tomorrow is stand up paddle boarding and snorkelling then dinner with great friends.

Bring it on weekend!

Xxxxxxxxx L

As a chick…it may not seem like it would be, but it is seriously hard to tell a guy you are seriously crushing on them.

Especially if they don’t know if you are off limits or not.

Honestly I would like some input from some dudes on this one because I am struggling hard.

I mean there are a few possible line drawers that can be obvious in these sort of situations;

-friends with an ex

- used to date your friend

Sydney is a very small place, and basically everyone has dated someone you know (maybe more than one person)

Unless this man/woman dated your friend for a long period of time ie 6 months or over I think it is fair game

I am going to say it and shoot me for it but YOLO!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx L

A huge happy birthday to my beautiful friend Jen!!!

And a huge congrats to Mez who had a beautiful baby girl that I cannot wait to meet,

And to the rest of you happy Wednesday, only 2 days to go.

This weekend is going to be fab! Meeting mez's bub, girls lunch/night out and capping off the weekend with a Sunday of paddle boarding and snorkelling!

More juicier blog posts to come over the weekend regarding some of the recent encounters myself and the girls have had!

Xxxxxxx L

Well another Monday has rolled around..and I am feeling extremely dusty after what can only be described as an epic weekend.
 
A beautiful hens on Saturday followed by a night out with some fabulous friends.
 
Let me say it was well worth the Sh*tnss I am suffering as a result.
 
Detox is now in full force…we will see if can last longer than a day.

Enjoy Monday and the beautiful sunshine!!

Xxxxxx L

Happy hump day yet again. This year is flying by at the speed of light. Only 3ish months until Christmas!!! Wtf

The rest of this week is jam packed with dinners, birthdays and of course what is going to be an epic hens day/night!!!! (feel so old)

Hurry up weekend!!!!

Have a fabulous Wednesday!

Xxxxxxx L

Daylight savings has started which means summer is just around the corner!

At the moment I am all about taking life by the kahunas and living it up! Little moments in time can make you realise life is definitely too short and you have to make the most of it.

I have come to realise (not that i didn't already) how important my friends are and how much they have all been there for me in not only rough times but also have been there for the good times.

So happy beginning to summer 2012/2013 and let the good times roll!!!

Xxxxxxxx L